Summer brings sunshine, barbecues, and plenty of reasons to gather. But what happens when someone special can’t be there? Whether it’s an elderly parent, a relative recovering from illness, or a loved one living far away, missing out on family events can feel disheartening — for them and for you.
At Soma Healthcare, we know how important it is to make everyone feel included. A little creativity goes a long way when it comes to keeping your loved ones connected and involved — even if they can’t physically join the celebration.
Here are some thoughtful, simple ways to make sure no one feels left out this summer.
1. Bring the Party to Them (Digitally!)
Thanks to technology, it’s easier than ever to include people from afar.
Video Call Them In: Set up a quick FaceTime or Zoom during your gathering. Prop the phone or tablet up at the table or in the garden — just like they’re sitting with you!
Virtual Cheers: Pause for a moment during lunch or dinner to raise a glass together. It might feel small, but it can mean a lot.
Games from Afar: If you're playing a family quiz or game, send them a copy of the questions or let them join in via speakerphone or video.
If they need help with technology, a carer or family member can set everything up beforehand so it’s stress-free.
2. Send a Bit of the Celebration Their Way
Even if they can’t be there, they can still feel part of the day.
Make a Memory Video: Record fun little clips throughout the event — kids playing, people saying hello, funny moments — and send it to them later.
Create a Celebration Box: Pop some goodies in the post, like a slice of cake, a card signed by everyone, a small gift, or photos from the day.
Share Favourite Stories: Ask family members to write down a memory or message and put them together in a booklet or email.
It’s all about making them feel remembered and loved.
3. Plan a Mini Celebration Just for Them
If your loved one missed the main event, why not create something special just for them?
Quiet Garden Visits: A relaxed picnic in their garden or care home can feel just as special — and less overwhelming than a big gathering.
Photo Sharing Catch-Up: Visit them another day to share photos and stories from the event — bring some treats, and make it a fun one-on-one moment.
Celebrate with Support: If your loved one is receiving care at home, chat with their carer about helping organise a small summer afternoon tea or themed activity.
It’s the thought that counts — and often, these smaller moments are even more memorable.
4. Keep the Connection Going
Including loved ones shouldn’t be something we only think about during big events. Staying connected regularly makes a real difference.
Weekly Check-Ins: Set up short weekly calls or visits. Even a 10-minute chat can brighten their week.
Send More Snaps: Print out photos or send them by WhatsApp — they don’t have to be perfect, just personal.
Share an Activity: Watch the same TV show, do puzzles together over the phone, or recommend books to each other.
It’s not always about grand gestures — it’s about consistency, care, and keeping them part of everyday life.
We’re Here to Help
At Soma Healthcare, we support families in making sure their loved ones feel cared for, connected, and included — no matter the season. Whether you’re planning a summer get-together or simply want to stay closer to someone who can’t be there in person, know that every small effort makes a big difference.
Because everyone deserves to feel part of the celebration.
Don't know where to start?
Please contact us any time and we will be happy to assist you during this process.